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Stuff For Kids That Adults Might Love, Too
‘When I was a child, I spoke as a child, I understood as

Zan, Zandegi, Azadi (Woman, Life, Freedom)
The following words were written by a friend of mine, who is Iranian.



Experts By Experience
In the interests of full disclosure, I was a See Change Ambassador when


This week’s Guest – Niamh Ní Chonchubhair (S1, Ep3)
This week, I’m talking to Niamh Ní Chonchubhair on the Woman Up! podcast.


The Trauma Of Parentification
Were you parentified when you were a child? By that, I mean were


Woman Up! Episode One With Aoife Martin
Nine year old me is thrilled with herself. Forty years ago, I dreamed



Choosing A Guide For Your Healing
Amid all the chatter on- and off-line around ‘reaching out’; acknowledging that

Child Sexual Abuse Is Not The Same For Everyone
Content Warning: Child Sexual Abuse, Trauma, In my work with people


It’s Not Her Fault! (Or Is It?)
Often, when I work with daughters of narcissistic mothers – particularly women who

‘Too Damaged By My Mother To Have Children Of My Own.’
Earlier this year, I surveyed 1,722 Daughters Of Narcissistic Mothers, with a focus

‘Going No Contact Was My Only Option.’
Following on from my piece yesterday, today I’m looking at the levels of